Here’s Why Some People Don’t Enjoy Sex

Lack of  Love

Listen: sex without love is like eating plain roti without butter or veggies. When you love someone, even their noisy snoring sounds pleasant. Love makes everything spicy, especially what happens between the covers. So marry the one you actually love, not the one who makes and not someone who looks like a Turkish Delight

The fake movie

Oh, these devices have made people stupid! Are you watching strangers on screens and expecting your spouse to do similarly? This is a marriage, not a movie set. Concentrate on your lover, not what the internet is presenting to you.

Comparison

Stop comparing your wife to Professional Models! These actresses use professional lighting and camera angles. genuine love happens between genuine people, with all their flaws. Stop comparing and start enjoying.

Promiscuity

Jumping from one partner to another? Life isn't a smorgasbord! Too many options can leave you feeling confused and empty within. True pleasure requires loyalty. One decent relationship is preferable than ten transitory ones.

Thinking Too Much

Arre, this is not a math exam! Stop overthinking. Don't be concerned about your expenses, potbelly, or whether you're making too much noise. Nobody will tell you to quiet down in your bedroom—it is not a library! Simply relax, go with the flow, and let pleasure do the work.

Suspicion

How can you ever rest if you continue to distrust your spouse? If you're laying in bed wondering, "Where has he/she been?" Is he a cheater? Do I need a detective?—Then how will romance blossom? Trust is the finest aphrodisiac.

Fighting With Your Lover

Sex with an angry spouse? That's like drinking tea with salt instead of sugar! Before you go to bed, settle any disagreements. Otherwise, not only your night, but your entire marriage will suffer.

Poor Mood Setting

Your bedroom should seem beautiful, not like a storage facility. Fix the lighting, get rid of the unwanted junk, and take a bath! Keep your body fresh; it is not trash!

Rushing

Why rush unless it is a quickie (and even then, do it correctly)? Make the most of your time by exploring, enjoying, and making memories. Life is already moving too fast—at least in bed, slow down.

Sexual incompatibility

You must find a mate with whom you are naturally compatible. Just like tea and biscuits go together, a couple must 'click' in the bedroom. If you're not in sync, discuss and learn each other's rhythms.

Past Pain

If you have experienced trauma, do not suffer in silence. Heal first, then chat to your spouse. Sex is not supposed to be a hardship; it should be a pleasurable pleasure.

Rigidness

Do not act like a traffic cop in bed—this is not authorized! Maintain an open mind and occasionally allow your spouse to take the lead. This is a dance, not a military drill.

Hygiene concerns

Sex will be messy—accept it! Don't act like a clean freak in the midst of the performance. If you're thinking about perspiration, saliva, or anything else, you'll never appreciate it. Let go and enjoy the trip!

Repeated Routine

Boredom is the opposite of passion. Spice things up, try something new, and keep the enthusiasm going. Why can't romance be as varied as food?

Cold Hindplay

Do not vanish after the act like a robber in the night. Stay, hug, and murmur nice things. Otherwise, your partner will feel like an old tissue.

Having Sex as an Obligation

Sex should be enjoyable, not work. If one partner believes they are fulfilling a responsibility, the spark will dissipate. Enjoy each other rather than simply checking off a list.

Wrong Words or Silence

Say something! Moan, murmur sweet nothings, or convey whatever you want. Silence is for meditation, not making love.

Roughness

Sex should be fun, not like a wrestling match! Be kind, respect each other's bodies, and strike the appropriate balance between desire and caring.

Pathetic Foreplay

Jumping right to the main act? Arre baba, even cricket matches have warm-up rounds! Take your time, enjoy the process, and build the enthusiasm appropriately.

Viewing Sex as Evil

Some individuals believe that discussing sex is a taboo topic. But, since God created it, how could it be wrong? Marriage is a great thing. Stop feeling guilty and instead feel grateful.