The Heart of a Woman: Timeless Wisdom for Life and Love
- Kamasutra Kingdom
- Aug 4, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Feb 2
Listen ladies, Life isn't as complicated as you make it out to be, but sometimes, you NEED a little bit of good, old-fashioned advice.
Your biggest enemy is yourself. The one in your head that keeps making you overthink, That low self-esteem, the doubts – they’ll make you emotionally unstable and give you migraines for free! Love yourself from the inside first, only then will you find love from outside.
You're not in a relationship with a man until it’s clear as daylight. Don’t be thinking you're in love just because he spends time with you or treats you nicely. Arrey, he might just be in a good mood!
If you're married or in a relationship, don’t go demanding your man’s time like you're collecting a bill. He'll spend time with you when he feels peace and warmth around you, like when he was chasing after you. Attract him with that same charm you had when you first met, instead of nagging.
Mr. Right is the fellow who gives you the space and peace to be your best self. Choose your environment wisely, my dear.
Your own husband won’t find you if you’re busy fooling around with someone else’s husband. Simple as that.
Even Mr. Right can hurt you sometimes. But the difference is, Mr. Right will feel bad when he does. He’ll own up, apologize, and try to do better. Remember, love is something you learn over time.
Silent treatment won’t fix a thing. If your man has hurt you, talk it out. Teach him to love you better, and resolve things together. The happiest couples are the ones who’ve mastered this art.
Men don’t mind being corrected, but mind how you do it. It’s the tone that makes all the difference, no? The world’s been hard on women, I know, but when you speak, do it with respect and love. Arguments won’t always get you anywhere.
If a man’s not serious about you, he’ll avoid accountability. He’ll dance around, hide you, operate in the shadows. Serious men, on the other hand, stand tall with pride in their commitments.
Getting pregnant won’t make a man serious about you. A man’s serious because his personal vision for life includes you, not because you’re having his baby.
If you don’t know who you are, marriage will be one big mess. Knowing yourself is your job, baba. It’s not your husband’s job to figure that out for you.
If you marry a man who doesn’t know himself, good luck! He’ll frustrate you, drag you down with him, and make you lose yourself. Marriage, when it goes wrong, hurts the woman the most, no doubt.
Just because you have a relationship with God or marry someone who does, doesn’t mean your marriage will work. You both need to learn to relate with each other, not just with God.
There are good men out there, just like there are good women. But if you keep entertaining the wrong ones, you’ll never find the good ones, simple!
If you want to know the kind of man you're dealing with, hold off on the physical stuff. See if he’s there for more than just that. Some men will promise the moon just to get you into bed, but once that curiosity is gone, so are they.
Not all relationships struggle because of the man. Sometimes, you’re the problem too. Be honest with yourself. Work together and the love will grow stronger, baba.
An insecure man will fight everything good about you – your success, your beauty, your career, your personality. He’ll make you feel like his problems are your fault. But don’t dim your light for a man who’s stuck in his own darkness.
If you’ve got a good man, don’t overblow the small things he did wrong today. Don’t forget the good he's done over time. Arre, keep your perspective, don’t overreact and make him feel unappreciated.
Life’s not as tough as it seems, but you’ve got to be smart, eh? Keep these in mind, and you’ll do just fine
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