Unlocking Intimacy: The Essential Guide to a Fulfilling Sex Life

Communicate Your Fantasies Before It's Too Late

There are couples who’ve spent decades together and never spoken about their sexual

desires. Don’t be shy, talk to your partner, show them your favourite positions. Sex

expires. There will be a time, when these moments would be memories, so use them now.

Leave the Fingers, Embrace Your Spouse

Some people have so much practice doing it themselves, they are not interested in their

spouse anymore. That my dear is a cold marriage. Reconnect with your spouse, not with

your fingers.

Flirt With Your Spouse, Not Others

There are people who will flirt with everyone except their spouse and then sit around

wondering why the thrill is gone from their marriage. Want my advice? Be naughty,

tease, flirt with your spouse—it adds a little spice and can turn an otherwise dull marriage

into something mouth watering.

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Guys, I get it. You feel exhausted and want to roll over and go to sleep right after you

have done the deed. I’ve been there. But a woman is not like that. She wants a little more

intimacy after sex.

She wants you to hold her for just a little longer, run your fingers gently over her skin,

and kiss her softly. She wants you to say “I love you” in her ear a few more times.

You see, some women have confided in me, saying, “After he finishes, he just turns his

back on me and falls asleep. I try not to feel hurt, but I can’t help thinking, ‘Does he

really love me?’

So guys, once you have had that level of intimacy, don’t just go to sleep afterwards or roll

over and start snoring. Spend a while longer just holding her, loving her. It won’t take

long before she’s feeling safe and you can both drift off to sleep in each other's arms.

It doesn’t sound like much, guys, but it really is all it takes to have your wife feel as

bonded and connected to you as she does in those moments when she talks about

everything with her girlfriends for hours on end.