10 Things to Know About Your Man's Sex Life

You know, sometimes I hear my dear ladies saying their husbands want too much of that

cuddle time, if you catch my drift. It’s like they think sex is as essential as their morning

tea or evening glass of Whiskey. Well, here’s the thing, men and women are wired a bit

differently when it comes to this. So let me help you get into the mind of your husband

and see what’s really going on.

• He’ll Always Ask for More

Let’s face it, most husbands wouldn’t mind if their wives turned up the dial in the

bedroom. Chances are your husband is no different. In fact, he may be one of many who

secretly wish you’d lavish a little more attention on him between the sheets. It’s not a

critique, my dear; it’s just how they’re wired.

• Yesterday’s Fun Is Yesterday’s News

While you may still be in the glow of last night, your husband is already thinking about

next time… his drive is always on, stronger than yours perhaps.

• His Sex Drive Is Powerful

One of the things that matters equally as much to him, if he’s in the mood, is physical

connection. Seriously, when he wants it, it’s as though blinders have overtaken his view

of anything else until it’s been met.

• He Wants a Romantic Wife

Even the most religious, old-fashioned man wants a wife who’s exciting and involved in

bed. No one likes a cold fish, my dear. A little romance and excitement go a long way in

keeping the bedroom lively.

• He Needs It Regularly, Just Like You Need Kindness

Just as you crave his kindness and affection, he craves regular physical affection from

you. Most men hope for at least two to three times a week. If you’re in a cycle where you

wait for his kindness before being interested, then see if you can flip it. Give him what he

craves, and watch how he showers you with love and affection.

• He Faces Temptation Often

Whether you realize it or not, most men feel attraction and temptation again, and again

(yes, again) in the same day. Be his safe harbor so he doesn’t get lured into someone

else’s dock.

• Men Are Moved by What They See

You’ve got to keep his eyes on you, my dear. Don’t let that secretary at his office steal

your spotlight. Wear those clothes that make you feel attractive, even if it’s just you two

at home. A little skimpy dress here, some sexy lingerie there—make sure he’s always

looking at you with that sparkle in his eye.

• He Wants You to Be Active

Men don’t like having sex with their wives if their wives are dry and drab in bed. He

wants to feel engaged with you, like you’re having a good time with him. Roll with it,

turn with it, lift your legs up and show him how high they can go and do not be shy about

putting his face exactly where it is supposed to be. Let him know that he’s doing his thing

down there.

• He Loves Being Seduced

Most men love it when their wives take the lead. Surprise him now and then, invite him

with that naughty look in your eyes. Be his seductress – don’t be shy to flirt with him.

You’re his wife, but you can also be his lover, his mistress, his everything.

• He Wants It More Often Than You

Most men would like to be intimate two or three times a week, but most women are

happy with two or three times a month. This is where you really have to be smart, my

friend. If you want to keep your man and if you want him to keep his roving eye home at

night, then you have got to do more between the sheets than just lay there and breathe. Be

one of those wives who’s not only keeping her marriage together – but is having a ball

doing it.

Remember:

My only purpose in being here is to ensure homes are happy and families are kept

together. Take what you have learned and put it into action. God bless you all, and may

love fill our homes. Now go on, my dear, and become the world’s happiest ma¬wife.”