The Power of a Woman’s Tongue: Words that Shape Lives

It's like a sharp blade, you know – it can cut deep or heal, depending on how it's used. Women may not have the brute strength of men, but believe me, they can bring a man to his knees just with a few words.

1. A woman's biggest strength is her tongue, While men might be strong in their bodies, a woman can break a man down with just her words. She doesn’t need to lift a finger.

2. Her words can be a man’s biggest encouragement, his inspiration in life, or she can tear him apart and be his worst nightmare. The more he loves her, baba, the more power she holds over him.

3. Her words to her children? Ah, they can either build them up or break them down. The way a mother speaks, that’s how her children will remember their childhood. If her words are full of love and faith, they’ll carry that in their hearts. But if she’s harsh, her children will carry those wounds forever.

4. A woman’s tongue can send the wrong signal to men, eh? If she’s too suggestive or playful with her words, it can come across as flirting. If she’s single, she might mislead men. If she’s married, she’ll make her poor husband feel insecure, wondering why she talks to other men like that.

5. Her tongue can also chase away her friends, with rude jokes or insensitive comments. But a woman who speaks with kindness will always have people around her, no? Her words will create a feeling of care and warmth.

6. Ah, gossip! A woman’s tongue can become a gossip machine, and you know how that goes, baba. She’ll hang around with other gossipers, and before you know it, they’re destroying each other’s lives – marriages, careers, peace – all ruined with their loose tongues.

7. Her words can make a man avoid coming home. Imagine, instead of having an affair, he just doesn’t want to be around her harsh tongue! But a woman who speaks lovingly, ah, she’ll have her husband rushing home, looking forward to hearing her voice even over the phone.

8. If a woman is emotionally unstable, she’ll lash out with her tongue, saying all sorts of nonsense. But a woman who’s steady, even if she’s moody or having a rough day, she’ll still think before she speaks. That’s the difference, my dear.

9. And her tongue can wound a man deeply. Saying things like, "You’re not man enough" – no man wants to hear that! It can provoke him, make him feel small, even if he’s trying his best.

A woman’s tongue can make or break her home, her children, and her husband’s spirit. So be careful with those words, eh? Once said, they can’t be taken back.