From an Experienced Man to an Amateur

Have you ever actually sat and considered what it means to be with a woman? Not only sleeping near her or touching her skin, but truly being there; with your presence, stillness, and honesty.

This is not an average time, she gives you. It's unusual. Sacred, even. When she invites you in, she doesn't only open her body. It's something far deeper. She's inviting you inside the quietest part of herself, where invention begins and trust resides.

However, far too many men pass through this place as if they were visitors, eyes open but hearts closed. They don't understand how she's feeling. Not only your touch, but your meaning. Your energy. Your honesty-or lack thereof.

Her body is not separated from her heart. They speak the same language. Touching one means touching both. So, before you reach for her, ask yourself: what exactly are you bringing? Is it a concern? Is this true? Or are you just looking for a moment to forget yourself?

Sex is more than just about pleasure. It's a confluence of opposites. A peaceful transfer of authority and submission. It is not about counting, proving, or chasing. It is about depth. And the depth must begin with you.

Only a man who has confronted his own darkness, who has stood silently with his own needs, can meet a woman where she actually is.

So I ask you, man to man

When you are with her… are you really with her?

Or are you only passing through?

Think about it. Not for her sake. For yours.