21 Timeless Rules for Men: Wisdom for Life and Integrity

21 rules you should follow and teach your son / brother / friend too.

1. Never go back to a woman who was unfaithful to you.

   
   

2. When you say something, mean it. Words are bound, and we old-timers stick by our word.

   
   

3. If they do not invite you, there is no need to persuade them to give you a seat at their table, right? You have your own.

   
   

4. Show up on time, or early even. Time’s precious, especially at our age.

   
   

5. Always have some cash on you, boy. Never know when you can’t take the bill, or a bottle of feni home.

   
   

6. When someone’s talking to you don’t be like a statue, listen properly—people like being heard.

   
   

7. Doesn’t matter if you’re going to a wedding or the fish market, look sharp, first impressions last, Goenkar style.

   
   

8. Learn to make a decent curry at least. Can’t live off bread and sausages all the time.

   
   

9. Before you answer, just a little pause - gives the illusion of thought and makes you look smart as hell, lol!

   
   

10. Lad you need to know how to talk! EQ over muscles.

    
    

11. Do not ever do this begging love, ah? If she is not into you, there's no harm in saying goodbye.

    
    

12. It is important that you observe this rule: Manage your money, do not waste it on drinks and parties. Save some for the future!

    
    

13. Exercise, exercise! even if it’s just a morning walk at the beach.

    
    

14. Stay curious, kid. There’s always more to know, even when you’re an old man like me.

    
    

15. If you didn’t bring some in with you, don’t eat the last one

    
    

16. Own up when you mess up. Take responsibility—no use blaming others for your mistakes.

    
    

17. Keep pushing yourself—in work, hobbies, and health, it’s what keeps us learning and growing.

    
    

18. Protect your family, value your friendship, never forget who you are.

    
    

19. Let no woman, and I mean not one of them, take advantage of you. If they see they can use you or that it’s okay to take liberties with you or your pocketbook, they will.

    
    

20. Never shake hands sitting down. Stand up, look them in the eye, and give a firm grip.

    
    

21. Don’t go bankrupt trying to show off. You don’t need fancy cars or clothes for people to respect you, son.