9 Things About Intimacy

I know I have spoken about this topic once or twice already. But I still have more knowledge and wisdom that I will continue to impart on you all.

By now you must have learnt that Intimacy is not just about the physical act; it's about connection, love, and respect. And that's why I want to share with you the nine essential things to remember.

First and foremost, consent is key. Never force someone into intimacy.

Next, listen to your conscience. Make sure you're both comfortable with what you're doing. It's meant to be a pleasure, not a burden.

Then, there's mutual enjoyment.

Now, foreplay is not just about the physical stuff; it's about the way you treat each other daily. Kindness, laughter, small gestures of love.

And don't forget about hindplay – what happens after is just as important. Cuddles, sweet words, a gentle touch.

Of course, hygiene is essential. Keep yourself clean, and make sure you're fresh and ready for each other. (Go read my post on Hygiene)

Then, there's creativity. Love is an art, not a routine.

Communication is also crucial. Your partner isn't a mind reader.

Finally, connection is what it's all about. Intimacy isn't just physical; it binds two souls together. It's not just about the moment; it's about the memories you build together.

A good love life isn't about youth; it's about effort.